Anyone who has ever known me can confirm that I’ve always been invigorated by exploring new locations.
trying new things
A few years ago, as I neared the accomplishment of visiting all 50 states, I pledged to myself that I’d seen every one of them before hitting 50. This remained the sole objective on my list.
bucket list
That was truly important to me. And the one I feel proudest about completing, now that it’s finished.
I achieved my objective when I was just under 49 years old, specifically during the summertime right before the pandemic began spreading globally—a fortunate timing indeed—while standing inside the visitor’s center located within the Theodore Roosevelt National Park situated on the west side of North Dakota. It appears that among citizens in our nation, I am considered quite an intrepid individual. A particular poll indicates that the typical U.S. resident has traveled to around 17 different states, with merely 2 percent having explored every single state out of the total 50. Though not claiming to be an authority on this vast country, through visiting several states, I’ve managed to gain some insights about them.
Each state holds its own charm and is worthy of a visit.
I had been aware for some time that North Dakota would mark my last stop. There was nothing wrong with the location, but it’s one of those areas where you probably wouldn’t find yourself driving unless it was your specific destination, much like Oklahoma.
Route 66 road trip
But I had absolutely no clue about the events that awaited me once I reached the Peace Garden State after my extended wait to visit.
As Sherry and I entered the visitor’s center, I cheerfully remarked that I had finally visited all 50 states. A park ranger at the counter heard this conversation. It turned out that North Dakota is frequently the last state people check off their list, so they have a “Save the Best for Last” club. Members receive a certificate, some bumper stickers, and a T-shirt as recognition. They then took my photo next to the woodchipper.
Fargo,
It is permanently displayed at the park, and they invited me to become part of a private Facebook group for members only. This turned what was already a deeply personal moment into an even more significant one.
I appreciate how North Dakotans proudly embrace their lower profile. They take pride in their home, which they rightfully deserve. Many Americans view certain parts of the U.S. as mere “flyover states” not worthy of exploration. This perspective couldn’t be further from reality. Some of my most memorable experiences occurred in locations I initially underestimated.
While North Dakota is undoubtedly worthy of a visit and should be prioritized—as with every state—it’s definitely one you might want to leave for your final destination.
Stepping outside your comfort zone is rewarding in itself.
In my mid-twenties, I received an invitation for a business trip to reside at a secluded bear camp located on the Kenai Peninsula.
Alaska
Neither my upbringing in the Midwest suburbs nor my time in New York City during my early adulthood had equipped me for something like this, yet I was eager to take it on.
We arrived at the beach in a dilapidated four-passenger aircraft and met a tough, very competent guy carrying a rifle to safeguard us against numerous bears clearly visible nearby. My thoughts went to how those canvas tents might have seemed as flimsy as potato chip bags to these animals.
Apart from steering clear of the bears, another activity planned for this trip involved salmon fishing on the Kenai River. For several hours, I found myself sitting in a small rowboat alongside three older gentlemen, trembling as I wore all the clothes I had brought along. Despite finding it quite unpleasant, I persisted with the thought that catching a salmon would be incredible—I could hardly wait for my friends not to believe me—and so I remained silent throughout.
None of us managed to catch even a single fish, which prompted an older fellow to suggest returning to land. As one of them assisted me in stepping off the boat, he remarked, “You didn’t grumble at all throughout this.” I felt a sense of pride knowing he recognized my attitude, yet why would I have complained? How often will I be able to experience something like this again? Taking advantage of such distinct opportunities defines travel itself.
If you’re from the countryside, occasionally dive into the hustle and bustle of a city. And if you’re a city dweller, take time to inhale the scent of the woods or observe swaying fields of grass. This might help you discover aspects of your personality you were previously unaware of.
Leaning in is
particularly
important with food
I identify as someone who eats both plants and meat, so consider my suggestion carefully: When traveling, try not to be too choosy about your food. Focusing solely on keto diets or carbohydrates isn’t crucial when you’re gathering new experiences. Instead, savor the local cuisine.
state foods
they are worth each and every calorie. Each and every time.
So smash crabs on a restaurant table in Maryland. Drink beer and eat too much sausage and cheese in Wisconsin. Crack into a fresh-caught lobster in Maine. Order the Christmas enchiladas in New Mexico. None of those things will ever taste better than they will at that exact moment.
America’s favorite food
can be discovered wherever you travel.
Adopt the local customs to fully enjoy your trip.
The initial time I visited the Gulf Coast of Alabama,
Sex in the City
It gained immense popularity. While dining at a cozy restaurant right next to the shore, I decided to order a cosmopolitan as my drink. The kind waitress approached to jot down our orders but seemed clueless about what a cosmopolitan was—just like the bartender. Even after all this time, I wouldn’t be surprised if attempting to demonstrate my supposed sophistication ended up making both of them feel inadequate.
In hindsight, I should have ordered a Budweiser. You’re missing out on the fun—and very likely the
hidden gems
Too—if you fail to take cues from the locals who reside there. They possess intimate knowledge about their region far greater than you could ever attain. An evening engaged in an activity outside your usual comfort zone won’t harm you, and chances are, you’ll find much more enjoyment in it than you initially anticipate. Essentially, avoid acting like a New Yorker when visiting Alabama.
We’re all more similar than we are distinct.
Social media platforms and cable news networks might lead us to believe that our nation is highly divided, yet interacting with real individuals paints a different picture. In my experience, nobody has ever attacked me as harshly as anonymous trolls do on Twitter when visiting various states across the country. Political discussions usually only arise if initiated by someone; ordinary citizens from one end of the country to another prove to be far friendlier and more receptive than they’re often credited for being.
Our sense of national identity is far more robust than our political disagreements. No matter where you travel across the country, individuals cherish attending Fourth of July parades, local fairs, and high school sporting events. They also have an appreciation for sunny days, blooming flowers, and spending time with their grandchildren. The most effective method to realize this is through firsthand experience.
hit the road
And make sure to personally visit at least some of the 50 states. I assure you, you will not regret it.
Source:
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YouGov.com
Which U.S. states have Americans traveled to, and what are their preferred destinations?
